Nine (9) Questions Before You Marry
Talking about the right person, this does not mean that he must one is perfect. So how do we know that our dream partner or man today is the right person for us?
They say a lifetime of regret that might happen to someone is if he married the wrong person.
Weddings are beautiful and happy is every woman's dream. We can realize that if our happy marriage coupled with the right people. Get to know some of the following considerations to know whether he was 'the one' or not:
Is he an independent or a mama's boy type?
Every woman would like an independent and successful men of his own business, not the man who nebeng success of their parents.
No rich no matter what the origin is not diligent work. If your partner is showing signs that he is the kind of kid papa or mama's boy, then you need to think carefully whether you want to live under the shadow of your in-laws.
If yes, please go, but if not, then you better look for an independent man.
Does he have the character, integrity, wisdom, and gentleness that ace?
The man synonymous with rudeness. If a man has acted or spoke harshly to you before marriage, it is certain that he will be more rugged again if already married.
Do not be naive to think that he will change after getting married later. If he can not respect you now, so he also will not respect you after getting married later.
How to do with his family?
Relationships man with his family, especially his attitude on the mother and sister, is a reflection of his attitude on couples and families 'future'. If he be gentle when faced with a mother or sister, so he will be gentle on you and the prospective daughter someday.
What about friends?
Intercourse your male friends also should be a weighted calculation when you decide to stay with him or not. If the guy you associate with good people and educated, then it is probable that something like that too him. Your partner relationships reflect what he
How is his attitude in the face of pressure?
Maybe you really like when he started a humor moves. Maybe you even melted helplessly as he heard the sweet seduction. But the quality of a man it just seemed when he faced pressure. How is his attitude in the face of pressure? Do become irritable and desperate? Or even make it motivated? Find out.
Is it 100% to bring good luck in your life or even misfortune?
Is its existence brings many blessings to you, yourself and your character development for example? Or even make you worse and not karu-known? You need to investigate this with eyes that really open. Do not be blinded by the name of love. Love is giving not destructive.
Are you both headed toward the same life?
Make sure your man has a lifestyle that was not too far away with you. Although different perspective and mindset, but make sure you both have the same goals and principles. Consider also whether you can live with any shortcomings? Better discuss it before marriage.
What is the relationship that you live today demanded too much sacrifice, both physically and emotionally?
There are times when relationships become too expensive to maintain. If so then now is the time for you to think again. Whether you do not sacrifice comparable to what you would roughly get? Consider also if the sacrifice had been until it comes to family.
Does your potential to be more alive or locked up when you add it together with him?
One of the things that your partner can do is encourage the emergence of the potential that may lie within yourself. If together you and he have made your 'lame', then your relationship arguably unhealthy again.
So, think well before you Decide to Marry Him
They say a lifetime of regret that might happen to someone is if he married the wrong person.
Weddings are beautiful and happy is every woman's dream. We can realize that if our happy marriage coupled with the right people. Get to know some of the following considerations to know whether he was 'the one' or not:
Is he an independent or a mama's boy type?
Every woman would like an independent and successful men of his own business, not the man who nebeng success of their parents.
No rich no matter what the origin is not diligent work. If your partner is showing signs that he is the kind of kid papa or mama's boy, then you need to think carefully whether you want to live under the shadow of your in-laws.
If yes, please go, but if not, then you better look for an independent man.
Does he have the character, integrity, wisdom, and gentleness that ace?
The man synonymous with rudeness. If a man has acted or spoke harshly to you before marriage, it is certain that he will be more rugged again if already married.
Do not be naive to think that he will change after getting married later. If he can not respect you now, so he also will not respect you after getting married later.
How to do with his family?
Relationships man with his family, especially his attitude on the mother and sister, is a reflection of his attitude on couples and families 'future'. If he be gentle when faced with a mother or sister, so he will be gentle on you and the prospective daughter someday.
What about friends?
Intercourse your male friends also should be a weighted calculation when you decide to stay with him or not. If the guy you associate with good people and educated, then it is probable that something like that too him. Your partner relationships reflect what he
How is his attitude in the face of pressure?
Maybe you really like when he started a humor moves. Maybe you even melted helplessly as he heard the sweet seduction. But the quality of a man it just seemed when he faced pressure. How is his attitude in the face of pressure? Do become irritable and desperate? Or even make it motivated? Find out.
Is it 100% to bring good luck in your life or even misfortune?
Is its existence brings many blessings to you, yourself and your character development for example? Or even make you worse and not karu-known? You need to investigate this with eyes that really open. Do not be blinded by the name of love. Love is giving not destructive.
Are you both headed toward the same life?
Make sure your man has a lifestyle that was not too far away with you. Although different perspective and mindset, but make sure you both have the same goals and principles. Consider also whether you can live with any shortcomings? Better discuss it before marriage.
What is the relationship that you live today demanded too much sacrifice, both physically and emotionally?
There are times when relationships become too expensive to maintain. If so then now is the time for you to think again. Whether you do not sacrifice comparable to what you would roughly get? Consider also if the sacrifice had been until it comes to family.
Does your potential to be more alive or locked up when you add it together with him?
One of the things that your partner can do is encourage the emergence of the potential that may lie within yourself. If together you and he have made your 'lame', then your relationship arguably unhealthy again.
So, think well before you Decide to Marry Him